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  • Vasili
    Moderator

    • Mar 2006
    • 14683

    #31
    Re: I double-dog-dare-ya!

    Incredibly sad!

    What little time parents have to actually participate with children nowadays should never be filled with doubt, anger, fear, or distrust.....

    Unfortunately, the turmoil of being an adolescent has never been tamed by a proven solution yet, and adding the increased pressures of a society increasingly founded on instant gratification and personal pleasure certainly make the high hopes and expectations parents present to their children seem more like demands and mandates. The tendency for children (and they are children still, learning, copying, striving..) to over-compensate with dramatic actions only shows how far we have strayed from the foundations of human relationships - communication.

    **Having a "row" with his father is probably the straw that broke the camel's back, so to speak, but is also more like the tip on an iceberg I imagine....there's more to the story, and what was being written at home...
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    • Gh0stw0lf
      Corporal

      • Jun 2006
      • 10

      #32
      Re: I double-dog-dare-ya!

      hm, great starting post ceratinly warmed everybody up! haha, yea i can remember those days, when computers were the last things on my mind, now i just have to watch my son do the same things i did when i was young. No i can see what actually went wrong when i broke my arm climbing a tree 9my son did the same thing).

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      • SChajin
        Major General

        • Jan 2006
        • 2792

        #33
        Re: I double-dog-dare-ya!

        Oh Trish,

        I'm so sorry to hear this awful news, it will be so hard for your child to understand what and why someone would do this, there must be a little more then a row going on here. I can't speak to my own grandson about the loss of his mother and brother due to the ex-husband. (He forbids) Just let your son know how much he is loved and that you will always be there for him no matter what.
        Sharon Chajin

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        • Vasili
          Moderator

          • Mar 2006
          • 14683

          #34
          Re: I double-dog-dare-ya!

          Originally posted by SChajin
          Just let your son know how much he is loved and that you will always be there for him no matter what.
          Communicate! Communicate openly, and nurture the protected zone around your family, an invisible union that is forever strong, even stronger than time itself! Your son will see your consistent committment to this by your actions, and begin to understand that there are some extremely important things that you just can't put your finger on, but are worth giving your all for anyway.....(perseverance, and enduring tribulations it by sharing it with trusted ones)
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          • Girlonthehill
            General

            • Oct 2005
            • 4193

            #35
            Re: I double-dog-dare-ya!

            Aw, Trish, that is heartbreakingly sad. I'm so sorry and can't even imagine what your boy must be thinking. All you can do is love him, be there for him and help him understand the grieving process that he will undoubtedly go through.

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            • davidundalicia
              General

              • Mar 2006
              • 6294

              #36
              Re: I double-dog-dare-ya!

              Originally posted by SChajin
              Oh Trish,

              I'm so sorry to hear this awful news, it will be so hard for your child to understand what and why someone would do this, there must be a little more then a row going on here. I can't speak to my own grandson about the loss of his mother and brother due to the ex-husband. (He forbids) Just let your son know how much he is loved and that you will always be there for him no matter what.
              I agree with Sharon, I had many a row and beatings when I was eleven but I never once thought to do what this little boy is supposed to have done.

              What a world we live in where children are put in these positions.
              They did not ask to come into this world but they have to take so much
              pain and anguish......Trish just love your boy and dont even try to understand that other little boy.
              Time solves everthing so love, love and love your son while you can.....
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              • limebrook1
                Brigadier General

                • Jun 2005
                • 1583

                #37
                Re: I double-dog-dare-ya!

                Thank you all for these comments, and you are all so right. My son just needed to feel loved last night, and just sitting with my husband and I seemed to be enough. We talked when he wanted to, and he stayed up late just to be with us.

                At only 11 what was upset him was the same as what was upsetting the adults - a total lack of understanding of why it had happened (and yes, there are rumours at school that there must be more to it), and a sense of futility of a wasted life.

                It was an opportunity for us to all agree that things are never, ever as bad as they might seem in the heat of the moment.

                Sorry again for hi-jacking this light hearted thread!
                Trish
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                • JaanEST
                  Staff Sergeant

                  • May 2006
                  • 47

                  #38
                  Re: I double-dog-dare-ya!

                  hehe kassi i love your storrys but if i have to aswer for those questions then i think i will say NO :P hehe

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                  • kassi59
                    Major General

                    • Nov 2005
                    • 2771

                    #39
                    Re: I double-dog-dare-ya!

                    You dont have any stories? common' double-dog-dare-ya!.....:))

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                    • JaanEST
                      Staff Sergeant

                      • May 2006
                      • 47

                      #40
                      Re: I double-dog-dare-ya!

                      hehe... :( nop maybe i should try to write something... idea is good :o maybe my biography thanks for idea :P

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